There are plenty of things you can do with bondage, am I right? Especially if you have a willing partner who also loves to participate… wink*. And as fun as it can be, sometimes you are looking for something else or a little bit extra to spice things up. I mean, the point is to always try something new…in most cases, at least wink*. So let’s review some things you can do while you have your partner in some form of bondage because it can give you some fun ideas try tonight…or even right away…
If you blindfold your partner, you can mess with them by having them count to a certain number…while you do things to their bodies. This can work on many levels, for instance, you can kiss them all over and make them count to 50. Or use a vibrator while they count to 100. You can guess why it can be so hard: they will need to focus on several important things at once. If you want to be extra wicked, make them count backwards! And you can add different things like, if they mess up you will stop and they will start again, for example. Or if they make a mistake, you will slap them with your hand or paddle. Needless to say, as they won’t be able to see, they are not expecting anything you do with them.
Another oldie but goodie is to simply do some role play. There are about a million variations to this depending on your fantasies so you will probably need a lifetime to actually perform all of them. And if you ask me, that is one of the greatest things in life. If you don’t know where to start, just ask your partner about some of their favorite role play fantasies and discuss yours as well. Popular fantasies include (but are not limited) to kidnapping, a live in maid or a live in slave, police officer… No matter what you choose, make sure to go all the way. If you’re a kidnapper, keep those ropes in hand and tie them to a chair. If you’re a police officer, grab those handcuffs and use them on your partner! You don’t know how dangerous they can be…and don’t forget to thoroughly check them…you know, just in case wink*.