Gender play is a great addition to any sex life. Whether you are in a heterosexual or homosexual relationship, there are different ways to practice it in the bedroom (or the living room, the kitchen, the car?...) so if you are interested, you should start right away. If you are not that much interested, you can always experiment with it once to see if that’s up your alley (you may be surprised!). Just remember, if you have a particular fantasy and there’s someone willing to try it with you, there’s nothing to be ashamed of! Go ahead and act out on what turns you on, wink*.
Now, for lesbian relationships, gender play can be even more exciting. Or you thought that was just for men or heterosexual relationships? Wink* Anyone can play, so I’m going to give you some ideas so you can start, because I’m cool like that.
The first and probably easiest way to start is probably through role play: you (or your partner) can dress up as a man. Now, you are probably saying “but I don’t want to have sex with a man! I’m a lesbian” Well yes, but you will be having sex with your lady partner who is only dressed as a man…Or you will be dressed as a man who is having sex with a woman wink*.The game can be as simple or as elaborate as you want; you can be the girl who wants to seduce the teacher, a man picking up a woman, the doctor and the nurse…even two gay men who seduce each other? The point is to play out a fantasy, get out a bit of your comfort zone and have fun in the process, so you will decide what is it you want (and turns you on!).
Another way to have some fun through gender play is to just go for it in the bedroom. One of you can act or play out as the man when you are having sex or you two can take turns from time. One thing that can enhance the experience is to get a strap on dildo in order to play the masculine role a bit better…besides, free hands, right?
If you are intrigued by something a bit more public, you can always try dressing up as a man and then head to town. You can either do this alone, or you can fool the world with your partner. In order to pass as a man, you will need masculine or men’s clothes; generally something loose or baggy, bind your breasts and wear a short wig or at the very least, a ponytail. You can be as convincing and elaborate as you wish, so you can even wear some facial hair… and don’t forget to move and act like a man!
