Whether you are into BDSM practices or not, bondage is a great thing to try when you want to spice up your intimate relationships. There are many bondage techniques that you and your partner can enjoy at least every now and then, in order to discover new levels of your sexuality and even develop new fetishes along the way. While bondage practices might not lead to an intense orgasm alone, when they are combined with exciting sexual encounters they will give you a climax that you can’t forget. Couples that enjoy bondage games during their sexual encounters are able to understand the excitement that comes along with the exchange of control that takes place during sex. A bondage game will give more power to one partner over the other one and increase the sexual stimulation between the two of them. Here are some tips and tricks that will help you discover the advantages of a good bondage scene with your partner!
Rope bondage
The oldest but also the most appreciated form of bondage is based on basic sex toys and accessories such as rope or tape. The concept of bondage stays the same regardless to what you choose to use. If you are the dominant type you can start by tying your partner’s hands together using a rope or tape in such a way that they can’t control themselves or their own body. Or you can go to the next level and tie both their hands and ankles together and restrain their entire control over their body. Feel free to add some sex toys to the entire scene in order to make things more exciting for both of you. You can increase sexual stimulation by using nipple clamps, orgasm belts or different dildos and butt plugs. However, you should leave suspension bondage for future sexual encounters, when you are more secure on your actions and more familiar with the entire bondage fetish.
Introduce bondage accessories
An important part of a bondage scene is visual stimulation, especially for the dominant partner. This means that you will be even more turned on by seeing your lover wearing certain accessories that make them look even more submissive; such as collars, blindfolds or different types of gags. The market offers you a wide variety of bondage accessories to pick from that you can also use during different sex scenes, so don’t feel like those toys on the shelf only come out to play when the ropes come out. You can even use vegan bondage gear if you are not a fan of the leather gear, or if that type of material does not go along with your personal beliefs. Use your imagination and creative skills to develop a realistic sexual encounter based on your bondage fetish and your sexual desires. It’s a great idea to have a safe word in place before the sex scene starts, especially if both of you are beginners at these types of games. A safe word will help you to avoid experiencing awkward moments that can be a turn off for both of you.
Try our arm binders
When we are talking about beginner bondage gear, arm binders should be at the top of your list. By having your partner wear a pair of arm binders you are restraining them from moving their arms and actively participating in the sexual encounter. This will make them feel more submissive to your sexual desires and you will enjoy all the control that you have over them. You can find arm binders made of leather, latex, or leatherette material and they usually come in a variety of colors and sizes. So be sure to get the size that is suitable for your partner. Remember the type of arm binders you get is not solely your decision and you should consider your lovers preferences as well. If arm binders are new to your sex scenes, you may want to view some erotic videos that contain arm binding. It will be a great turn on for you and your partner to watch. It will also give you some guidance in the area so you may use them to their full potential to reach new levels of orgasmic highs!