Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?

Well let's see, as far as a vanilla life, I really don't have much of one as all of those who know me know what I am into and tend to ask questions all the time about different aspects of Bondage. So I would have to say that they are. Also I am a firm believer of being true to ones self.

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

Well that goes back as early as the third grade when I would tie the girls up with their jump ropes at recess.

How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.

Well as far as labels I have always been dominant. Although I have served as a 24/7/365 slave twice in my life. And I am a big fan of knowing what is going through a subs mind as things happen as well as things that can go wrong and how to address them.

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional?

I think that they both play equal roles when it comes to me. Physically when I am actually doing something with another and emotionally when I think of the many things that I have done over the past 35+ years now.

Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.

Well my first experience as an adult is what comes to mind. And it was with a sub that later become my first slave. We came home from dinner and were settling in for the night in front of the TV when she decided to ask me if I ever thought of tying her up, needless to say I said yes rather quickly. She got up and went to the bedroom, about 20 minutes later I decided to go and see what was keeping her, as I got up she walked out dressed in a nice purple satin corset, 6" heels and opera gloves. She was carrying a box that I knew was full of toys that I had been getting the past couple of years. She set the box down and kneeled at my feet. I quickly locked a posture collar around her neck and stuffed a nice 2" ballgag in her mouth, after that the ropes came out and the next three days she was in some form of Bondage at all times.

What was your best bondage experience?

Now this is a tough one but would have to say was one of my birthday parties where I had the honor of tying 23 girls, cd's, tgurls and males all together in one big ball.

What is the most creative safeword you have ever used?

Dilligaff

What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?

Safety, be creative, and above all have fun.

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

Take your time, experience things for yourself and don't let others pressure you.

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from sub-shop.com and why?

Really not certain as I have never gotten anything from the sub-shop that I am not happy with. I do like her posture collars the best and use them often.

What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?

I really don't have any, as I tend to do things when they come to mind.

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