No one knows you better than you know yourself, right? I can’t speak for all women, per se, but there are things about us that tend to run along the same
I know what you’re thinking, you want me to spill some secrets. First of all, I’ll remind you of something you may already know: seduction is a game in which power dynamics have already been in play. We can’t be seduced without flipping an internal switch, allowing another person to pleasantly work their way under our skin, and into our pants. It involves giving up control. I also want to remind you that you know better than I do how your woman likes her sex. If she isn’t into S&M, then my ideas of dominating a woman are probably not going to be right for her. Of course, of course, of course, this is something that should always be
So you want to dominate your woman? Where do you start? Hmm… How about this…
She’s walking into the bedroom, you’re ready for her. You grab her by the wrist with a sly smile on your face (so she doesn’t misinterpret your aggression) and slam the door. Slamming the door, your hand gripped around her
Anyway, where were we? Oh yeah, so back to getting naked. Unless she doesn’t mind you destroying her clothes, get her out of them right away, and let her know you mean business. Use a nice prop, like the Bad Cop Baton to direct her motion. That’s right, press it hard against her back when you tell her to bend over nice and slow when slipping those panties over her ankles.
Now you’ve got her how you want her. Make sure you have some other supplies ready- no fumbling through drawers or closets while the room is just heating up. I like to use the Adjustable Dungeon Spreader Locking Cuff Set on her ankles. This is one of my favorites because the heavy steel is so sturdy, I feel all that control running through my blood when I lock her in. It’s so invigorating. Plus, this one is adjustable, so I can make the decision at the last moment about how far I want her legs spread apart (ohhh, how I love the easy access that a spreader gives). On her wrists, try the Double Buckle Cuffs with Clips for that same
From here on out, you have all the power, with which you can take in many different directions. Think about bringing out a soft rope whip to slowly entice her. Tease her with a dildo (men, this goes for you too, if you’re up for it. Lots of women love the way it looks to watch a dildo slide between the lips of their lover…). Suck on it so it’s nice and wet, then rub it softly at the base of her thighs, just close enough to where she wants it but not quite there. That will really make her beg and scream. And don’t forget about the power of your own body. The sensual buzz of skin on skin (or tongue on skin) is irreplaceable. Try licking her ever so gently, starting at the bottom of her vagina and working your way up. Use the tip of your tongue, and let her feel your hot breath as you’re doing it. I promise that next time she’ll be pleading for you to dominate her all over again. Of course, don’t forget to take a turn being dominated by her. Submission is fun, too. (*giggles*)
