More often than not, men are in charge of the course of events in a sexual encounter. But sometimes they can run out of ideas and inspiration then fall into a sexual routine. So guys, you need to be very creative if you want to increase the sexual pleasure. For those dull moments when you are not sure how to create more sexual energy between you and your partner, here are a few useful tips and tricks to help you spice things up in the bedroom!
1. Be more commanding during sexual encounters
The man is often the stronger one in the relationship. It means men use their natural strength to control their partner in an erotic and exciting way. But are you aware of how to use this innate male quality to reach new levels of sexual pleasures and satisfaction? Women tend to like men who are firm in bed, know what they want and are not afraid to get it. Your confidence as you move will add to your sex appeal and make you more attractive to the opposite sex. How can you do this? Well, you can change positions spontaneously and lead your partner to more intense sexual intercourse. However, don’t use more strength than you have to! Remember, all sexual encounters must be safe, sane and consensual for everyone involved. Make it a point to pay attention to your lover’s reactions then take your cue from there.
2. Be daring to try new fetishes and fantasies
Being afraid to experiment with your sexuality can damage your relationship in the long run. The idea of developing your sexual skills is to add more pleasure for both of you, so you have to make sure your partner enjoys it just as much as you do. Try new sex toys and accessories such as anal plugs, nipple clamps, tape, restraint systems or electro stimulating devices to increase the sexual stimulation for both of you. Make sure to surprise your lover with a new sex toy every now and then. If you are into BDSM fetishes and fantasies, you can dive into a wide variety of role plays and sex scenes. Be sure to ask your partner about their own fantasies and ideas. Perhaps, watching some erotic videos will spark your imagination and inspire you to step into new sexual fields. You can get many ideas with a quick search on the internet then choose what is most appealing to you.
3. Be willing to add a guest to your bedroom
Threesomes are always a good idea, in particular, if your relationship is based on trust and good communication. If so, consider yourself lucky as not all couples are able to enjoy it if their relationship lacks emotional connection and a low level of intimacy exists. If you find yourself in a happy and healthy relationship, you can be certain a threesome will bring benefits to it. Remember to talk with your partner beforehand and decide together on the type of threesome you want to have. You can have a male or female guest with the sexual orientation you prefer. This practice is very popular among the LGBT community although other couples tend to enjoy it just as much. When you have a guest inside your bedroom, you are opening yourself up to the new sexual experiences and fantasies they might bring. Be willing to try out new ideas and discover new sex toys and accessories such as double ended or strap on dildos and restraint systems.
Your partner’s encouragement can also help you step up your game. She could support your fantasies and let you take charge to achieve an intense sexual encounter. For this reason, communication and trust are great contributors to your sex life and to your entire relationship. So, let go of your inhibitions and be ready to enjoy some unforgettable experiences!
